LIVE BEYOND LIMITS

Do you put limitations on yourself? Do you find reasons to quit a task before you even get started? It is not uncommon. As rational thinkers our natural tendency is to weigh the “costs and benefits” to achieve our goals. But at times it’s much easier to find reasons why something may not work versus the joy and accomplishment we could derive from achieving the success. This thinking limits our abilities to experience greater fulfillment and satisfaction. A limiting mindset may stem from a difficult childhood, low self-esteem, or past failures. Yet, despite the specific reason, it all boils down to fear.

Unlock your potential and overcome limitations with these tips:

·       EMBRACE YOUR LIMITATIONS. Realize that even if you’re not the best at something, you can still be very successful, as long as you make an effort. There will always be someone smarter, stronger, or better looking than you. But they aren't you. Everyone is given a unique gift to fulfill their calling. Find yours and avoid letting a fear of inadequacy stop you from trying. It’s okay if you try and fail. Failing to try is the only true failure.

·       WORK A LITTLE HARDER. Thomas Edison once said, "Genius is one percent inspiration and ninety-nine percent perspiration." Even coming up with a great idea for a new service or product is more about hard work than about being brilliant. Lots of people are talented, but it takes someone who's willing to put in the extra effort to make it successful. Just get to work and do your best.

·       GET INTO POSITION. Before you get in your car and turn on the ignition, you have a destination in mind. Accomplishing things in life can be the same way. Have a clear understanding of where you want to go and then you can figure out how to get there. Step out of your comfort zone and step into the fulfillment zone.

·       EXPLORE THE POSSIBILITIES. Sometimes things seem impossible for us, only because that’s what we believe them to be. Open your mind and overcome the onstacles blocking your potential. Focus on what you can do and believe the best for your next steps. You'll be amazed at how things will work out for your good.

Turn “I wish” into “I WILL” and live beyond your limits! Take a moment and share a success you’ve achieved through limitless living.

BEGIN AGAIN!

I recently found my daughter’s clarinet that was collecting dust in a closet for the past 10 years. When my daughter visited I gave it to her and she immediately started playing songs. The melodies were sweet and we all stood around cheering.

Are there things that you have put away or hidden in your closet that are waiting to be pulled out and put to use? Is it a dream of going back to school or opening your own business or revitalizing an old talent? Whatever it is you can begin again!

Consider these action steps to revive your dreams and make sweet music of your own:

Step 1: Make the Decision

Your situation will not change until you do. Decide today that you will do what’s necessary to make things happen for you. Every journey begins with a single step. It's your time to shine!

Step 2: Know Your Direction

Cultivate a plan with SMART goals. These are goals that are SPECIFIC, MEASURABLE, ATTAINABLE, REALISTIC and have a TIME component. For example, “I will contact my mentor or coach to schedule time in the next week to develop strategies that will help me to reach my goals. Being specific and gaining support will help you achieve results faster. 

Step 3: Remove Obstacles

Whether those obstacles are your own thoughts, other people, money or other resources, you must address them head own and devise ways to eliminate them. In some cases you may have to move forward despite those obstacles. Don’t get discouraged, if it were easy you would have done it a long time ago. But today you are stronger, smarter and braver than you were before.

Remember this is your dream, your time and your purpose. Do what you can do and you’ll be surprised to see how the right people will be in the right place at the right time to support you in your success. The moment you start to wonder if you deserve better, YOU DO! Don't stay stuck! Begin again and live life on purpose for your purpose.

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